Nubemeister Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 It happened again..and It hurts just like it did the first time. I had dated my ex the first time. I loved him and all of that. We broke up because he said he thought I deserved better. He had self-esteem issues and just over all thought I could do better. We broke up, hadn't talked to him in 3 years and suddenly I just email to see how he was he responded. He wanted to hang out it was all ok. Wasn't expecting anything...when HE hugs me, he kisses me at the end. The next day he asked what the state of the relationship is and we agree that we are together. It was the most awesome feeling I've had...lol and I still had feelings for him as I realized down the line. Problem came when I made comments about how he doesn't like talking on the phone or not spending time with me. They were sarcastic comments and I didn't think anything of it. We were having a conversation one of these days and he tells me that they bothered him. That, it caused for him to thinka bout separating...and that he thought that I was putting alot of feeling into it..more than he was, when he was the one that said that he hadn't felt the way he felt with me with anyone previous. So, he decides to break up with me and I feel completely stupid...and broken again. Was it that he just didn't know what he wanted or just didn't feel it...probably both...
Pocky Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Or maybe you two just aren't good together. Loving someone doesn't automatically make them the perfect person for you. I know it'll be hard to get over the relationship, but it sounds like it really is a good thing for you.
Author Nubemeister Posted January 12, 2005 Author Posted January 12, 2005 Thank You:) It probably was:)
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