Feeling

[freebird31]

I can't help but feel in my heart that my ex loves me. And still very much cares for me. Nothing anyone can say changes this feeling. I dont know how else to explain this feeling I have. I'm not saying we will end up together or I'm in some sort of denial. I'm past all that, trust me. But I still just feel he still very much loves me. I'm moving on. Have actually been seriously considering dating. I will always have a soft spot for him...but let's face it, my feelings for him might change. I just hope he doesn't turn into that guy, that comes back when I've moved on.

[freebird31]

I guess I feel this way. Because the last time we saw each other a couple months after we broke up, all the sweetness/love/fire was still there with us...and one of the last things he said to me was that he still was attracted to me and still had love for me. Very powerful. I know in my heart he loves me. I just KNOW. Don't know how else to explain. It's unexplainable, really.

[k10k]

That's actually lovely Freebird - you can take comfort in that, way better than feelings of resentment. We can still love from a distance, yet move on at the same time.

[notthathard]

I just hope he doesn't turn into that guy, that comes back when I've moved on.

 

It's and absolute shame when this happens with two people wanting different things at different times.

 

I've done this before and had it done to me.

 

The times it happened to me I was well and truly moved on felt happier than what I was when I was with that person (maybe because of the breakup memories).

 

Your on the road to recovery and these feelings are part of the recovery. Hang in there and stay strong. Your future relationships will be better because of this experience.