mortensorchid Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 It's the third week of the new year, and I already am trying to avoid dramas. To review, I had this guy who I will call Wishy Washy / WW give me the run around before, then I saw him on New Year's Eve. He pinned me against the wall between him and the wall, then said he missed me and wanted to see what I had on under my clothes. Twenty minutes later, he changes his mind. I let someone else who looks like William Orbit walk me to my car. For more information, see this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/452285-starting-off-new-year-yikes In the last few weeks since, Orbit and I have become better friends and we are in the beginning of something new. I like him so far, seems like a good guy. He also knows WW (they know each other, they are not friends) and knows about WW calling me an old maid with cankles. To say that I have made a better choice than WW is an understatement, to be sure. Problem? WW keeps calling me! I have avoided him for weeks, even though he appeared at my art show last Friday night (I had invited him before this nonsense went down), and he keeps calling me. One day he called three times! Is the best thing to just to avoid him indefinitely? What to do about this?
deathandtaxes Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Did you take his calls? Just don't take his calls. Don't respond. He'll figure it out eventually.
salparadise Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Is the best thing to just to avoid him indefinitely? Yea, if you're enjoying the attention why not let it continue? Otherwise, just tell him that you intended to phukk his wish washy ass silly on new year's eve but he totally blew it––and now you're doing rebound guy, who at least understands when no actually means yes.
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