waiting4u Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Trying to win back an old flame - I broke up with him and it was about 3 years ago. We didn't date long - maybe 3 months. I was getting over a breakup and just couldn't see how awesome he is. We've been friends ever since and he calls me every now and then to complain about his OLD woes. Last time he seemed like he was dropping hints, so I suggested (via text, like a dumb*ss) that we might "give it another go" or just "hang out and see what happens." He at first said yes, but he seems hesitant (like I'm going to ditch him again like last time). He texts me every other day or so now - called the other day but I missed it, but doesn't set a date for us to get together. I'm not real thrilled about dating someone who's doesn't seem extraordinarily interested. But I think our past has colored things a bit. Oh wait - HE JUST NOW TEXTED AND WANTS TO GO OUT TOMORROW NIGHT. Bloody hell. How do you really pique a man's interest? Apart from my natural awesomeness, there's got to be some sort of psychological strategy. We get along amazingly well - good friends make the best relationships - and we are both single parents which is ideal. I just messed up last time. Ideas?? I could really use some advice from all you brilliant dating pros at there.
jba10582 Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 my natural awesomeness We get along amazingly well - good friends make the best relationships. It seems like you have a positive attitude, and that is good place to start from.
Guitarisgood Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Have fun. Don't be serious. Did I say don't take things seriously? You can save that for later. 1
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