pbgunz35 Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 So this is the situation me and my exgirlfriend had been dating for 1 1/2 years in till our relationship got a little bumpy I would get mad at her for no reason and snap out of no where well we had been arguing the whole week so I was drinking on a Friday night and decided I would go and spilt things at the time I thought it was a good idea. Lone and behold I did not do it in a very nicely manner I was rude and made myself sound better then her that is not the truth because I love her to pieces.. We broke up a week before thanksgiving so yes this has been going on for awhile.. We are really close to each other.. I called her after 2 days and she refused she did not want me back.. a couple days went by and we were back to hanging out almost acting like we were married staying with each every night never argued once during this time. It has come to a point in time were she is confused 50% of her wants me back and 50% of her does not. She has her own place. She is confused because I help her so much that has not been telling her family that we hang out and she is tired of hiding it all her family loves me a lot... I have went to not hanging out with her at all to hardly any contact.. I've asked her and the reason she can not take me back is because how I was so rude to her when we broke up and the words I said to her. I am extremely hurt to what I said and have been in so much pain I just want her back. I miss her so much.. she has told me yes there still is a chance at us working out. She Still calls me and texts me daily. She has told me she still loves me and I even dropped things off at her house and she texts me when I leave I miss u she has told me I'm her only relationship that she was actually confortable with. I know she is sad to.. I know time is a healer but anything I can do in the meantime.. I told her plenty of times I'm sorry and I've showed her I mean business I just need to give her time and space.. can anyone else give me some pointers
thedmc Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 I think you should do some soul searching and become a better person. Write a list of your flaws and try to fix some of them. Proving that you have actually changed is a huge step forward if you want to start up an old relationship again but that's easier said than done.
Author pbgunz35 Posted January 20, 2014 Author Posted January 20, 2014 Yes that's what I'm working on now as we speak since we broke up in November one reason is because I was going out and getting drunk with out her which is wrong I'm in a relationship I did not need to be at the bar.. I have been changing I quit going to the bar I have even quit my drinking no more liquor since it makes me mean and I only drink beer but I've only had 2 beers since then I have been keeping myself in the gym even though I did that before our breakup. But I'm working on improving myself.. eating better and keeping myself busy I still love her with all my heart.. the hardest thing is knowing what she is doing.. we texted back in forth for a little last night she texted me saying she was sad and not very much more. Im pretty stressed out myself and I know she is the one for me.. but I guess she needs to miss me now? What should I say when she messages me saying she misses me and on friday I have to get some things from her house. How do I go about that?
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