Scarlett_girl Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 how do you know when you are ready to date again?? it's been 3 months since I broke up with my bf of 2 years and I'm totally into a new guy..it's not a rebound cuz for the last 4 months of our relationship..i was already over my ex but could not bring myself to dump him(chicken!) anyways...i'm just wondering..how and when do you know you are ready to date again?? I feel ready..but my friends are saying it's too soon and all that other stuff..what do you think?
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 One way you are ready is when you find that you don't think about the new guy completely in terms of your ex. You start basing what you want out of the relationship on what you want and need, not what you avoid based on the last relationship.
Sukotto Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 As long as your inner monologue isn't constantly comparing the two then its fine. You know its a rebound when your constantly just thinking how your ex done <this> even if your thinking of the new guy is better than your ex its still a suggestion that it may be a rebound.
Author Scarlett_girl Posted January 12, 2005 Author Posted January 12, 2005 i never comepare him to my ex cuz i barely ever think about my ex at all!
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