Author ithappenedagain Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 I found that it's helpful to only browse threads that I feel might be conducive to my healing. For me, this means staying away from anything suggesting 2nd chances/reconciliation (trying to at least). Yep. I hear ya. Reading posts about getting breadcrumbs, second chances, changes of heart etc etc only make me believe that there IS a possibility of a reunion - however I know this is not a reality. At least with me. I just cant see how 2 people who lived together, broke up, and moved on can ever get back together. You know what they say about false hope? False Hope is bad for the heart. I need to get this poison out of my system. The poison being false hope. Thanks again for replying.
Author ithappenedagain Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 Nothing wrong with staying at the sisters house. Is she in a hurry to get rid of you? Take your time.. throw her a little bit of cash to make it a business agreement. Don't launch off into an apartment until you can afford it. It's also better to be around people right now rather than totally alone... No, she doesnt mind. But it is driving me crazy. 3 kids and 2 dogs all while sleeping in my nephews little bed. I feel pathetic. lol. I know I have to get my own place, but at the same time, I am scared to be alone. Thank god I have family out here though.
LostConfused123 Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 No, she doesnt mind. But it is driving me crazy. 3 kids and 2 dogs all while sleeping in my nephews little bed. I feel pathetic. lol. I know I have to get my own place, but at the same time, I am scared to be alone. Thank god I have family out here though. You are NOT pathetic!! Everyone needs to stay with a friend or family member when they never in a million years thought they would need to. I had to stay with my mom when I first moved here a little over a year ago. I was 40! I really had no choice. I didn't know anyone here. She drove me nuts and after a couple months, out the door I went! hahaha!! Sounds like you have an awesome sister!!! It's nice you can take your time and not have to rush into anything.
LostConfused123 Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 I meant to write WEEKS not months. Gawd, I couldn't have handled that!! hahaha!
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