liloldlady Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 I haven't seen him in two years. It will be two years in March. Broke up under very difficult circumstances, but have managed to become friends again. An opportunity may become available to me. More creative influence, and it's near where he lives. So I'm telling him about an encouraging development on that front, he ends the conversation abruptly, says he has to go, will call me back, and that was two days ago (not unusual for him, but still...). I called, I even sent him two sexy pictures *crickets* Why would he freak out like that? It's a great opportunity, and I'm not moving for him, per se, but that he's out there would be a pleasant bonus. But the gig is golden. If it was on Mars, I'd move there. I do have plans to visit his town in March, and he said he's looking forward to seeing me. (Although he doesn't always do what he says, in my opinion, and talk is cheap. Or rather, he does what he says, but at what I perceive to be a snail's pace. Said he used to jump into relationships quickly, but has changed his ways. Smart.) I talked with a family member about it, and she thought he might have become nervous. What's up with him? He is so fragile emotionally.
Lona.loba Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 (edited) Leave him a bit and give him some time he might be nervous or shy.. Might even still love u Edited January 19, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1
Author liloldlady Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 Might even still love u He says he does. Thank you, I will take your advice.
justwhoiam Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 An opportunity may become available to me. It's your opportunity. It shouldn't become his opportunity. I called, I even sent him two sexy pictures You know that was inappropriate, don't you? that he's out there would be a pleasant bonus. It's a bonus for you, probably not a bonus for him. What's up with him? What's up with you? This month you opened several threads on some guy, saying you're his girlfriend, he lost his cool & in december that he hates you? You even got jealous over a girl on FB. Was all of that about the same guy you broke up with 2 years ago? It's rather confusing,
beach Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Move for the job. Don't expect to see him or have contact when you move. IF he was interested at ALL he would have been super excited - but he's not! And stop sending him pictures = he's not interested in you and it's making you look pathetic. 2
Author liloldlady Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 It's a bonus for you, probably not a bonus for him. He said that if I lived closer, he'd be seeing a lot more of me. He said last weekend he's missing me.
FitChick Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Move for the job. If something good happens with him, fine. If not, it shouldn't be a problem for you because you will be happy with your new job and might meet someone better. 1
Snipercatt Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Doesn't matter what he says, talk is cheap; you've said so yourself. He probably thinks you're a little off your rocker. 1
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