mixy Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 We've been in a long distance relationship for 2 and a half years. To make this as blunt as possible, he treated me like crap countless, countless times. He went behind my back, lied, ignored me, broke up with me, was emotionally abusive, etc. Basically any ****ty thing a guy could do to a girl (long distance), he did. I took him back and he promised it would be better. I'm sure you've heard it before but he charmed me and really seemed to change. Things were going very, very well. His friends and my friends both saw an improvement. Well, the past few days I've been slighted by him. He's barely holding conversation and now he's back to ignoring me. I don't know how to put myself back together at this point. I gave someone a chance who really didn't deserve one. I'm sure he's feeling fantastic. He got what he wanted. My attention. How do I cope and realize that he's just so, so wrong? I don't want to do this again. I sent a message trying to initiate a conversation. He sent one back how he's busy with a female friend. I told him I felt like he was disrespecting me. He didn't respond. Should I block him from here or send a quick "this is over, bye". I don't really see the point in sending this as he doesn't care. Obviously.
mutualove Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Just block him.Seems like the only thing you're getting out of this RS is sorrow,is that what you want??
johncourtz Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Go NC for your own sanity. I recently relapsed and gave my ex the ego boost that she needed to be stronger. Backfired and i regret it but thats why time is designed to go forward, not backward. I know it hurts and its easier said than done, but prepare for more heartache and dissapointment if you continue to believe this guy's bs. Just do yourself a favor and move on. Trust me.
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