Luke12345 Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 I broke up with my ex about a month ago because I couldn't trust her, there's no way I will be getting back together with her but I want something else. Since our breakup I've missed her dearly and thought about her every day, it's been hard because it's only a couple of things that made me break up with her (but it's ultimately trust) compared to lots of reasons I could have stayed with her, it was a tough decision. Anyway I saw her for the first time last night at my local pub, we were civil, then we hit it off, it was quite nice, she text me afterwards saying about how she finally bought a new onsie because I accidentally broke hers before we broke up and thanked me for being civil, I replied, thanked her too, said it was nice seeing her, we chatted for a bit bit I'm stuck at what to say. Basically I want to be friends, close friends where we could still have a cuddle you know. I miss her too much for her not to be in my life, and I miss that closeness we had, however, I can't be with her because of the trust issue. How should I go about achieving this?
strive Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 You don't. It'll only make you look bad because you want to use her as your emotional tampon. If she agrees to it then she becomes the doormat. 1
thedmc Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 I agree with strive. The best thing for you to do is avoid her at all costs. You broke up with her because she wasn't trustworthy so why would you want her back?
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