slim66 Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 I am in a very complicated relationship with a woman for more than 6 years. For a variety of reasons we are not able to see each as often and as freely as we used as before At the beginning of the year, she asked me to "set her free " She said that I could break up with her but she could not break up with me because she would always want to see me I told her that I could set her free as long as she would also set me free, but she refused. Today we met after and made love in the park after which she asked me again to set her free. But also at the same time she said she would write me tomorrow !? So how do you read this ? I think what she wants is for me to give her space but at the same time she wants to be able to contact me whenever, not exactly and even arrangement in my opinion. How would you handle this ? I personally don't want to break up with her, neither does she want to break up with me.
Broken_Hearted1 Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Setting her free can mean different things. How often do you meet? Do you feel like your meetings are about when she can give time or when she feels like it...if that's the case then she is just playing with you man. She obviously wants to be in contact and keep you as a second option. I know what that feels like cause my ex does the same... Now what most people will say is ask her if she is serious about the relation. If she is not then end it and do the hardcore NC and move on with your life. Not easy as it sounds...especially when you really love the girl and she just doesn't realize what she has...I am still struggling myself.
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