Xiang Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 (edited) Hello to everyone on the community . So here i am, posting about my little issue, i hope some of you can give me some insight. Story/ bare with me. I had met this girl, we dated half a year, sufficient time for me to fall in love with her. It ended because she couldn't get over her-ex, even if he treated her like crap, never gave her attention( bait style, gave her some attention every few weeks to remove her anxiety and give her relief, kinda like a drug, then go cold) acted like he owned her and that she owes him for life, details, anyway he treated her like crap.(she told me) But she couldn't get over the guy so she said to give it a shot LATER when she is over him. Soo 6 months with me + few more month's alone, and she is still sulking over him. We kinda keep contact every now and then, she told me she hates him and want's to get over but she just can't ^^ + the guy has someone else now i think. I think she tried contacting him however. And she was like "If it wasn't so bat**** crazy in love with him, it would be you". Bull**** right? I mean if she loved me, she would get over him...or idk. Soo...i've never really been like this, has anyone ever loved so hard that it took maybe 1+ year to move on ? Did they move on or go back with ex? :\ Also, i love her like crazy, but is it worth the wait? Ty for your time. PS: She was with him 2 years + PSS: She dated the guy online mostly, actually never met ^^. While I am HERE and met her, etc. This is like a blow to my esteem, i'm here and i still fail xD wtf. Pfft: this topic is similar to my situation, with some differences...lol. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/93069-problems-girlfriends-ex Would still like some insight ^^. Edited January 19, 2014 by Xiang
FitChick Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Take her to see the movie HER. She might make the connection since she's into having a fantasy life, seeing as she never even met her "ex." 1
Author Xiang Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 Yeah they don't even live that far, but two years and never met? They aren't kids either, over 20, they just did everything over WEB, you can imagine. ^^ Soo thanks for the reply at least, i don't know if that movie helps, i might watch it myself first xD. Wish i would get more input, but this thread is kinda dead is seems.
MrMeh Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 It is not worth the wait. If you are second to a scumbag from her perspective, I can't imagine how worse it could get for you even if she does come to her senses. Don't degrade yourself due to her lack of emotional insight. Find a girl who knows what she wants.
CptSaveAho Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 no self respecting person would put themselves in your position... thats why no one has responded, i read this thread earlier this morning and laughed yet you are still seeking advice what to do? move on.... she would rather date/be in a relationship with someone shes never met then have one with you... someone should definitely do some self reflecting and fix whatever issues are constantly causing you to chase someone like this
truth_seeker Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 no self respecting person would put themselves in your position... thats why no one has responded, i read this thread earlier this morning and laughed yet you are still seeking advice what to do? move on.... she would rather date/be in a relationship with someone shes never met then have one with you... someone should definitely do some self reflecting and fix whatever issues are constantly causing you to chase someone like this Give the guy a break. He fell for the girl. The girl is very sick and needs help. Dating a guy for 2 years and never met? wtf? Either she is mentally ill or is a huge ass liar. Either or, OP needs to distance himself immediately and go NC on this nut.
Author Xiang Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 THanks...i always knew but, i just couldn't. Love her so damn much. Going to break it off, ty for responding it's better then nothing. I don't care if it's rather insulting toward me, i asked for it.
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