Jump to content

its finally clear, she cheated


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

first i was suspecting her cheated on me. the picture got clearer everyday.

she's kind of an ex that you should be aware of. liar and manipulative, love playing game's and dying for ego boosts.

 

after the break up, and we had multiple BU's, my cellphone was flooded with "i miss you 's " just to get under my skin and shake my feeling and try to see me as weak. while she was hanging with that guy, she's not even faithful to him and he act's like she's his entire world. well, his world will vanish soon already feeling sorry for him.

 

anyway, i struggled with NC for 3.5 months now. she sent me cpl messages and never replied. i can guarantee you guys she's shocked by now. she's the type of women that used to be chased by ex's, but her last ex (me) was different.

 

some of you might say " why you still care what she thinks about you" or i shouldnt feel better when knowing she's not, cuz im not over her. well it is about her. she's the one who made me feel the way i felt for the last 4 months. only she can make those feeling go away. my weakness was her, and only by her that weakness will disappear.

 

maintaining NC and fighting the urge to contact her helped me fight my weakness, is she gone from my mind? no. do i think about her all the time? still no. but she will be gone soon. the only thoughts coming across my mind is how bad person she is. it's only an anger.

 

now i feel more powerful, sounds silly. cuz of a girl i feel more powerful? well, yea cuz she made me weak once.

 

anyway, was just a vent and i need to say, be careful of those dumper's, those who ask for space (AKA i want to break it off) with no clear reason but are cowards to say it out loud, those dumpers who send mixed signals, those who throw you a bait and if you eat it ( asking them back) they just reject you in order to feel better. guys, those dumpers are weak and need help.

 

dont waste your time on a dumper that ended things with no reason, no matter what they think, they only play with you and nothing good will come from this. ignore them, never contact, dont eat the bait and you will feel much better.

 

again, just a vent. please ignore such dumpers and you will be the winner.

 

iworthmore

Posted

It is really common these days.

 

BTW, what you meant by "BUs"?

  • Author
Posted

BU's = breakups

Posted

Good for you for moving on!!! Just remember all woman flirt most cheat, just like most guys are dicks!

×
×
  • Create New...