Freeman1123 Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 I've been NC for one month now, this is the longest in years I haven't spoke to her. I got rid on Facebook because I was hungover, she'd just ignored a pretty simple question I asked her and she'd put a photo up and her face just annoyed me... So since then nothing. Is it easier, probably a bit. But I occasionally see her name on Twitter or other sites and as soon as I read her name my stomach does a back flip. I just wish I'd meant enough for her to at least acknowledge me? Kind of shows someones true colours I guess. Is this just me that gets this kind of feeling? I know I was the one who deleted her but still :/
ithappenedagain Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 I am right there with you buddy. I deleted my ex as soon as she sent me a "fairwell letter'' via facebook.... I was so pissed and hurt that she did it over facebook I immediately deleted her... Like while she was still chatting with me, I was in the process of deleting the account.. WHY DO I NOW FEEL GUILTY ABOUT DELETING HER??? I feel like she thinks I am immature, but I needed to do it for myself to heal. Just today I also deactivated my account. I am the type who would more than likely snoop. So I figured I needed to stay away for a while. Either way, you are not alone man. 1
Author Freeman1123 Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 Yes that guilty feeling!! I've always tried to be the bigger man and walk away with my head held high kind of thing and then when I've heard about other people deleting people I always think that's pretty sad... But it really does seem to be the only way of moving on and not being tempted to send them the odd message here and there right? I want to get my side across and tell her that yeah deleting her was pretty immature but it felt like the only way, then maybe I'll feel satisfied with it all. But I'm definitely not gonna start a conversation with her.
ithappenedagain Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Stay No Contact dude. You are 30 days into it. Dont set yourself back to day 1 of NC again. We are both in the same boat though. I totally know how you feel. I know how badly you want to talk to her and explain things, especially about the facebook incident, but you know what... it wont make a difference.. My mom just told me some great advice. She said to not feel guilty about making that snap decision to delete her from facebook, because afterall, she decided to DELETE me from her LIFE. Hang in there 1
thedmc Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 It's facebook, Not the end of the world. NC sucks but like realfriends said - NC means NC. Facebook, Twitter, all that crap. Just delete her and ignore her. Simple as that. Why get so hung up on a girl that has pretty much removed you from her life? As far as I am concerned, NC might as well be breaking up without actually breaking up.
Author Freeman1123 Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 Yeah that's a good point about being deleted from her life, never really thought of it like that. So yeah it's been 30 days and I've just got out the shower to see a Facebook message on my phone... From her... Saying 'Seriously!?' Hahaha what the hell guys! Is she watching this forum or something . I haven't replied...
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