swordsmen121 Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Met a girl...made out with her on the second date repeatedly. She initiated sometimes too. Third date...I asked her if things went too fast with the kiss. She said no and she liked it. She did say it was unexpected but she liked it. She said she wants to take things slow which I respected and agreed to as well. At the end of the third date. I went in for the kiss. She pulled back. She said we need to take it slow. I'm confused? She liked the kiss the first time and even said it wasn't taking things fast. And all of a sudden her mind had changed and wants to take things slow? I'm not initiating any contact with her. If shes interested she can message me again.
d0nnivain Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Show her there's a difference between a kiss or two & a full blown make out session. Tell her that if you have to. Hold off for the next make out sessions. If you like her contact her. Don't play games. If you fall off the grid, odds are she's going to take that as a hint you don't like her (or worse you're disappearing because after she made out with you -- a big step for some -- you disappeared when she wanted to slow down)
SmartDude Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 She liked the kiss the first time and even said it wasn't taking things fast. And all of a sudden her mind had changed and wants to take things slow? She changed her mind? What! People never do that do they? That is crazy.
Grumpybutfun Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Or, When you asked her if things went too fast with the kiss she got insecure and thought that you thought she was easy. Yeah, sometimes it is that simple, G 1
Guitarisgood Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 Third date...I asked her if things went too fast with the kiss. Mood killer. You're the guy. Lead. Social standards and protocols are outdated. Girls are just as sexual as guys. What you should have done is continued to hook up and even push for some action. If she then pulls back, you know to take things slow WITHOUT bringing it up and get to know her all the while until you guys trust eachother etc. Leave all this relationship talk stuff for her to bring up.
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