Holster1 Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 Kinda come out of a non-starter relationship with someone, basically it just wasnt heading anywhere she just wanted to be 'friends', fair enough then, time to move on. A girl at work, not really noticed her before but more recently if we pass each other shell smile or if she looks over shell wave at me, i asked her friend, whos also my friend, if she was single and she says she is, so i said im thinking of asking her out. left it at that for now and im not sure if she may of mentioned it to the girl but more and more we seem to be seeing more of each other whereas before i had other interests but seeing as that didnt work out im thinking of asking her out. Just im scared of the rejection and getting hurt after what happened before, was so close today to asking her but just chickened out. Any tips how to go about it? and what about first date locations? Thanks.
alphamale Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 'tis better to ask and get a 'no' then to never ask at all... you have a 50/50 chance of her saying 'yes', those are pretty good odds. if she is smiling at you that is a good indication.
curiousnycgirl Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Personally I have a never date a co-worker rule - it would be all weird if/when it ended and you would still see eachother. Other than my personal rule (which need not be yours) - I totally agree with Alphamale.
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