HermioneG Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 It just means I might avoid a Dday. I hear they are quite traumatic. You need to find a better psychiatrist. One who is focused on you, not the supposition of others with a biased source of information. And one who makes you realize you are worth more than this. 3
MissBee Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 It just means I might avoid a Dday. I hear they are quite traumatic. I see. So you're hoping she secretly knows but is in denial so there will be no dday? Denial isn't always a permanent condition though. It helps you until you're ready to face reality or in the case of the A, none of the clues you've put on the table are 100% definitive, so there is still time for her to snap out of denial or find indisputable evidence that can result in a dday. Breadcrumb evidence is not enough for some. That is easier dismissed esp if you're "in denial." For some BSs breadcrumbs are enough for them to confront it immediately and blow things wide open by snooping etc which will 100% confirm it, for others they won't resort to those measures but will brush it aside until the 100% evidence (i.e. seeing a text, email, etc) comes to light.
Speakingofwhich Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 With all you wrote about what's been said by her family and by her and what's taken place so far it's hard to believe she doesn't know. I think she knows and that he convinces her from time to time of what she'd rather believe. Possibly she's decided to accept it, try to ignore it and wait for it to blow over. 1
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