signal Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 I am a 27 year old male and been with my girlfriend who is 26 for 8 years. 3 years ago she wanted a break - I found out she was seeing someone else. We got back together. Last summer we went away on holiday abroad, I looked at her phone to check the time and saw a text from a guy saying he cant wait to kiss her. I confronted her, she cried saying she made a mistake. We got back together. Last week we went out to dinner, our relationship has been ok but she told me she was seeing someone else, had a few dates and was introduced mutually by a cousin. This was last Friday, since then I have not contacted her. She called me once on Wednesday night I did not answer. She text me Thursday saying " I take it we are not going to speak, even as friends" I ignored and she replied 5 minutes later saying "cool, bye." This is supposed to be my best friend, soul mate, after 8 years I am considering leaving the UK and moving away or just forgetting about this life. We live 20 minutes away from one another. I left everything behind for her, my family, friends everything and now I am all alone and prepared to leave for good.
TaraMaiden Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 This is supposed to be my best friend, soul mate, after 8 years I am considering leaving the UK and moving away or just forgetting about this life. We live 20 minutes away from one another. I left everything behind for her, my family, friends everything and now I am all alone and prepared to leave for good. 1: There is no such thing as a soul-mate. 2: There is no such thing as 'a break'. It's basically over, and you shouldn't have ever taken her back, period. If she ever did stop being your 'soul-mate' it was that first time. 3: Don't be so dramatic. Don't use emotions to decide what you should practically do. Logical thinking is required. if you base life-decisions on how you feel emotionally, your decisions will invariably be wrong. 4: Go complete No Contact (see my signature for the Guide) and understand this: Life goes on, you'll be fine, these things happen, and use it as a progressive learning curve. 1
BDL Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Lesson for the future... and for all those thinking of getting back with their ex. When a girl wants a break and starts seeing someone else, you kick her to the curb. She is not worthy of your time and attention. 1
BC1980 Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Your preception of this relationship is not lining up with reality. For 3 years, you have basically been her doormat. She knew you would take her back.
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