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We've been broken up 5 weeks only been talking again for around one week.

We hung out last week and acted like we were a couple again blah blah and asked to see me the next day. We didn't end up hanging out and kind of stopped talking for two days.

Then he asked me to hang out last night but I couldn't because it was too last minute.

Today I saw him to give him something back and said we should hang out later and I said yeah sure and texted him asking if he wanted to hang and he called me saying yeah and I text him back and he still hasn't replied.

 

I honestly would rather him not talk to me at all than being lead on like this.

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Why are you allowing him to lead you on, to control you and your emotions?

 

If you want to get back with him, just ask him if that is what he wants. Or ask him if and/or what kind of turn-on does he get from you letting him control you.

 

Or ask yourself if that's a turn-on for you...to let other people lead you on, control you. Which is not a problem if that's what you like. But. Know what you like so you don't have to worry, complain, feel guilty about it. Once you know and acknowledge/accept what you like then you can just enjoy it.

I honestly would rather him not talk to me at all than being lead on like this.
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We've been broken up 5 weeks only been talking again for around one week.

We hung out last week and acted like we were a couple again blah blah and asked to see me the next day. We didn't end up hanging out and kind of stopped talking for two days.

Then he asked me to hang out last night but I couldn't because it was too last minute.

Today I saw him to give him something back and said we should hang out later and I said yeah sure and texted him asking if he wanted to hang and he called me saying yeah and I text him back and he still hasn't replied.

 

I honestly would rather him not talk to me at all than being lead on like this.

 

What did I tell you?

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We've been broken up 5 weeks only been talking again for around one week.

We hung out last week and acted like we were a couple again blah blah and asked to see me the next day. We didn't end up hanging out and kind of stopped talking for two days.

Then he asked me to hang out last night but I couldn't because it was too last minute.

Today I saw him to give him something back and said we should hang out later and I said yeah sure and texted him asking if he wanted to hang and he called me saying yeah and I text him back and he still hasn't replied.

 

I honestly would rather him not talk to me at all than being lead on like this.

 

Then deny him the opportunity.

Block his number, change yours, and ignore all approaches, whatever they are.

 

see my signature.

 

if you keep hanging out with him, it's all your fault, not his.

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