Exes trying to instigate fights

[rach63]

my boyfriend's ex wife has his (obviously) and my phone number, as they have a son together. every now and then, every month if you know what i mean, she sends him rapid-fire verbal abuse via text, followed by some crazy **** about them having sex and she's the best at sex now (they've been divorced 5 years, we've been together for 3 by the way), and he should cheat on me then a few minutes later, she would ask me a question or something, like to try and gauge whether or not i've seen his messages and got mad about it? she never contacts me otherwise. and i didn't respond to her unless i absolutely have to because, duh burn in hell you lousy cunt, so she stopped "checking" on me after she does it. we had this problem with my ex for awhile when my current boyfriend and i got together and this clown had been my ex for 2 years! i just wonder if anyone else has had a nutcase ex who has tried to manipulate you or your partner into fighting with one another? is this a personality type? or is there like, a loveshack for psychos where instead of advice on being stable like people give here, they give how-to's on being crazy?

[salparadise]

is there like, a loveshack for psychos where instead of advice on being stable like people give here, they give how-to's on being crazy?

 

You want extreme cray-cray? Check out the histrionics. Google "histrionic psych discussion" and it should come up at or near the top.

[d0nnivain]

I previously dated a guy who's EX was bat***** crazy. The fastest way to make them stop is to not rise to the bait.

 

 

Just delete the messages & carry on. If she doesn't get a reaction, she will go away.

 

 

If you think you may need evidence for some later custody issue, forward the messages to storage but still otherwise ignore them.

[rach63]

Yeah, i never respond to her and he ignores her unless it's regarding his son. We laugh about it because really, after 5 years, what could the motivation possibly be?