yelena Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 Hi, well two days ago I met this really cool guy in a bar that me and my crew always attend after an open mic we run. He was eyeing me the whole night and I was eyeing him bac. I got a bit tipsy and was extra communicative so me and him ended up talking and exchanging numbers. He told me that he would really like to take me out and when is a good time to call me. Thats been 2 days ago and I dunno should I call him in case he doesn't call me till tomorrow. He seemed really nice and I would like to see whats he really about but I dunno how guys look at if girl calls them first. So bring on the advices!
iceisles Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 I would give it another day. If you don't hear from him by tomorrow night, give him a call. That way you can possibly talk about weekend plans.
Hund1976 Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 Go ahead and call, he might be sitting there with your number pinned to the calendar like in Swingers thinking to himself "I've got to wait until Wednesday to call" so take him by surprise and make the call yourself!
allina Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 I would not call him. It was just a random drunken night and if he is at all interested in you he will call.
iceisles Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 Originally posted by allina I would not call him. It was just a random drunken night and if he is at all interested in you he will call. If he was drunk, he may not remember her at all. There's probably nothing wrong with calling, though.
allina Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 Well I doubt he completely forgot who she was that dosn't really happen unless you completely black out. Plus if he dosn't remember who she is why would she want to call him?
Hargrove Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 I think you should call. I'm completely into just doing what you feel needs to be done. If you think about this guy than you should definitely call just to see what could happen. I'm convinced wondering what-if is the worst thing there is. I think he will be flattered.
iceisles Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Originally posted by Hargrove I think you should call. I'm completely into just doing what you feel needs to be done. If you think about this guy than you should definitely call just to see what could happen. I'm convinced wondering what-if is the worst thing there is. I think he will be flattered. I completely agree. Most anxiety is caused by the unknown, which is why I have always supported calling when you feel the need to. I have never known a potential relationship to fall apart from a simple phone calls, unless you are contacting them several times a day, etc.
iceisles Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Originally posted by iceisles I completely agree. Most anxiety is caused by the unknown, which is why I have always supported calling when you feel the need to. I have never known a potential relationship to fall apart from simple phone calls, unless you are contacting them several times a day, etc.
Colleen Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Give him a call, guys seem to like it when girls take the initiative..trust me it's worked for me before.
iceisles Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Originally posted by Colleen Give him a call, guys seem to like it when girls take the initiative..trust me it's worked for me before. Girls take the initiative? Where can I meet one of them?
Colleen Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 I am one of those girls that take the initaitve..My boyfriend well ex whom just broke up with me the other day, I aked him out..and it worked out..best year of my life ..besides he told me it was sexy
iceisles Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Originally posted by Colleen I am one of those girls that take the initaitve..My boyfriend well ex whom just broke up with me the other day, I aked him out..and it worked out..best year of my life ..besides he told me it was sexy I wish any one of my exes would have done that - it would have made things so much easier.
katie79 Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Of course it's only been a few days. Men do that because they are scared of looking desperate, which shows stupidity in the first place. If he likes you and he said he'd call, he will. Otherwise, forget he exsists altogether. It's a waste of time. Next!!
sportynut38 Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 I met my current ex under the same circumstances, neither of us were drunk but had exchanged phone numbers with the understanding that we would contact each other that weekend. By Sunday when he hadn't called, I called him just to say hi and see what was up. He told me many times afterwards that if I hadn't called by that Monday, he would have called me. I would say to call him, even if nothing happens at least you know you gave it a shot
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