Trnamakesnse Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 And when she was trying to find out if we were compatible I just joke around and wasn't serious with her. I had it in my head that she didn't like me at all. She did, she met another guy and says she's in love been together a few months. I know she did like me, and was trying to find out if she loved me. But I screwed it all up like I always do. She's not even talking to me right now so I really don't see much chance of getting her. I really loved this girl and we actually are compatible as far as our beliefs go and what we want in life. This guy is so much older it makes her uncomfortable to admit his age to people. I don't think it will last forever but knowing her it'll last long enough to get her dream of a trip in europe. I honestly care about her and I didn't realize she cared about me at all because I take people at their word. Should I give up all hope? It's been almost 2 weeks since I've heard from her. I really love her but don't want to be the guy who tries to ruin something even if I think it won't work out. I never knew she cared about me so much until a lot longer than others would have..... I'm really dumb but she's so sweet. I'm broken between trying to be in love still and trying to be a friend. I don't want to go after what I can't have so if we stayed friends I'd want to mean it. I can't act or lie well so it's just stupid to try. What should I do? It's obvious she really liked me, she wasn't willing to say so outright but her actions show it. I don't know what I'm doing here, once I fail I usually just give up. She's marriage material though, the kind of girl I'd stop looking around after finding. We've known each other years and she tried to gauge me but I didn't take it seriously thinking she was kidding like we allways do. I don't want to give up if I might have a chance, and I don't want to keep trying if I have none.
deathandtaxes Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Life lesson. No risk, no reward. Snooze you lose. Learn it fast, learn it young. Don't screw it up next time. You really don't want to be the OM in her relationship.
Author Trnamakesnse Posted January 18, 2014 Author Posted January 18, 2014 Life lesson. No risk, no reward. Snooze you lose. Learn it fast, learn it young. Don't screw it up next time. You really don't want to be the OM in her relationship. No I don't. I honestly care about her but I don't want to put her in that position. I don't want to be a guy who does something like that either. It's hard because I'm so dumb with this stuff, I took the risk but I'll just say I'm aspie. I couldn't read her and her words didn't match her feelings. I can only really understand her words.... Wish half the women I met were as patient as she is. Everytime I make the same mistakes, I need a woman who is brave enough to tell me the truth as scary as it is to admit I told her and she tried to tell me her way. I just couldn't understand so much subtlety. 1
Author Trnamakesnse Posted January 18, 2014 Author Posted January 18, 2014 I know. I can find someone just as special I'm not ugly or stupid and I work hard. Finding a good woman is easy, understanding each other is hard. I've had so many women get so close and I just ruin it by not seeing what they are trying to convey. I didn't want to add her to the list of almosts and screw ups.
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