pickflicker Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 I try. And I got burned over the past Summer. Stupid crazy chemistry after the first date with a lady. We had a wild two months and then ppffft. I still look for and enjoy that chemistry. But I need to make sure there's more to something than just lusty chemistry. It's not enough to sustain a healthy relationship. There has to be more. There sure is. Always be wary of explosive chemistry from the outset. The brighter the spark, the quicker it can burn out. 1
Author avoforastig Posted January 22, 2014 Author Posted January 22, 2014 This discussion has really been interesting. Its so hard to know early on whether or not someone will be compatible for the long run. One of the most challenging things to decipher is whether or not something is on the pathway to commitment vs. one party just looking to have fun. Iwish there was an easy way to broach the subject early on. It'd be nice to know what a person is seeking, regardless if its with me or not. I think this is one of the things I find most confusing. I find myself prepping for a third date tomorrow but wondering if I should cancel the other date I had planned with a new woman? How many men and women actually multi-date? Are most multi-daters not really in the market for a serious relationship? If I was multi-dating and became more interested in one woman, should I inform her I am multi-dating ? With it being nearly impossible to determine what the other person's attitude and objectives are early on, does this make multi-dating acceptable?
pickflicker Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 This discussion has really been interesting. Its so hard to know early on whether or not someone will be compatible for the long run. One of the most challenging things to decipher is whether or not something is on the pathway to commitment vs. one party just looking to have fun. Iwish there was an easy way to broach the subject early on. It'd be nice to know what a person is seeking, regardless if its with me or not. I think this is one of the things I find most confusing. I find myself prepping for a third date tomorrow but wondering if I should cancel the other date I had planned with a new woman? How many men and women actually multi-date? Are most multi-daters not really in the market for a serious relationship? If I was multi-dating and became more interested in one woman, should I inform her I am multi-dating ? With it being nearly impossible to determine what the other person's attitude and objectives are early on, does this make multi-dating acceptable? Assume everyone is multi-dating. Even if you aren't, fib and say you are, at least for the first couple of dates. Be in demand. 1
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