DanielFife83 Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 this guys comment on my dating life:I Wont date this person that person he knows, none of the 150 mutual fb friends we have are a potential girlfriend, they are all out of your reach, even if I change myself for a woman the woman is still unobtainable, girls you think you can date but cannot, friends say nice things to make you feel better, he could blow smoke up my ass, I told him of a girl I like and he said she wont date me and he said go ahead ask her out and see what happens and then I Said we have hung out together and done stuff together and he said she is being my friend (Relationships start out as hanging out as friends), he knows this womans type and saw her on a date with a good looking guy (They didnt end up dating). this had hurt me to where I could not even drive a car.
Frank2thepoint Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 I lost you once you uttered the letters "fb". 3
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 18, 2014 Author Posted January 18, 2014 I lost you once you uttered the letters "fb". I meant facebook and I Was saying the stuff I remember this guy said. it affected my day really bad when he said that and destroyed my self esteem in when it comes to women.
Frank2thepoint Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 I meant facebook and I Was saying the stuff I remember this guy said. I know you meant Facebook. I just chose to ignore the rest of what you said because it was Facebook drivel. Get off Facebook, stop worrying about the gossip online, get outside, and get some hobbies. it affected my day really bad when he said that and destroyed my self esteem in when it comes to women. This is perfect example which you provided. You're listening to Facebook drivel and gossip, and you are allowing it to affect you. Also, women can't help boost your self-esteem, only you can. Hence why there is the "self" part in self-esteem. You need get some passions outside of Facebook, do something, set goals, so you can take stock and pride in your accomplishments. Those are solid examples that will build your self-esteem. 2
potsticker Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Also, women can't help boost your self-esteem, only you can. ^ THIS so much.
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 18, 2014 Author Posted January 18, 2014 ^ THIS so much. its a guy I know who is saying this.
WordvAction Posted January 19, 2014 Posted January 19, 2014 its a guy I know who is saying this. You're letting a guy get to you like this? Are you trying to bang the said guy?
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 You're letting a guy get to you like this? Are you trying to bang the said guy? no what he said really got to me, I now feel I am not worth it to anyone.
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