TheAmazingGuy Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 ok so ive been friends with this girl for a few months now, and i decided to ask her out so i asked her if she wanted to go see a movie sometime and she said yes, but she said it without hesitation so i think that she thinks i asked her to go as friends. i really dont know what to do
deathandtaxes Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Go watch the movie with her. Possibly make plans for something before or after the movie. Talk with her. And ask her out again if it goes well. You're worrying over something that hasn't happened yet. Breathe.
MidwestUSA Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Go ahead and go to a movie with her. It will become apparent soon enough if she views you as just a friend. What have you got to lose? 1
MixedUpChick Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Maybe she answered without hesitation because she's been hoping you'd ask her out. Just go out with her & see where it goes, don't try to analyze it so much, just go & have a good time. Either she's into you as more than just friends or you'll have a great time with a friend, either way it's a win.
Frank2thepoint Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 This is your first date? Then don't take her to a movie. You can't engage her during a movie. Take her for some coffee or pizza. There you can talk and get to know each other. 1
MixedUpChick Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 This is your first date? Then don't take her to a movie. You can't engage her during a movie. Take her for some coffee or pizza. There you can talk and get to know each other. Oh that's true, I totally missed that. Although - you could still do the movie first, then pizza or a drink after, to discuss the movie. But generally, seeing a movie for a first date isn't the greatest because of exactly what Frank said - there's really no chance for talking. And in this case, since you don't even know if it's a date - do you put your arm around her or just sit next to each other? A movie is much better for a little later date idea.
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