conmorse Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 It's been two months since she and I broke up, and I just woke up feeling really sad about everything. I know this is probably normal to go through an emotional rollercoaster, but I just wanted to express my feelings. We haven't spoken to each other since the break up and I've been in pretty much N/C with her for the sake of allowing myself to move on. She broke up with me, so clearly the memories or the relationship we had for two years wasn't valuable enough for her to stay. I just woke up thinking about how sad and unfortunate it is to have her in my life for so long and all of the sudden she's gone. Like many would say, it's like a death. I know this is how break ups should be and this was what she wanted, but it's just depressing how you can go from lovers to complete strangers... 2
TylerDurdenn Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 A woman that slept in my bed, a woman that travelled the world with me, a woman that knows absolutely everything about me, a woman that I fully trusted, a woman that I'd give my life for, a woman that could make me happy in an instant, a woman that was welcomed and loved by my family, a woman that laughed with me is now nobody to me. It's heartbreaking. I miss her more than anything. I'm still so deeply in love with her, yet our memories are the only thing that lives. Keep strong, I don't know how the DUMPER does it after such a long period of time. We'll get there. 3
chris21422 Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 yea man it's hard keep doing what your doing. Really time will only heals everything. What sucks is when you know someone for so long who is really close to you and cared for you suddenly is gone. But we can't do anything about it but to walk away, accept and respect their decision.
mtnbiker3000 Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 This was an education for you!! You have now learned a valuable lesson about people, relationships, human psychology and heartbreak. I know it's hard to see it like this now, but try to be thankful, as you are now that much more prepared for what life has in store for you next
jphcbpa Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 real proud of you for the NC. big stuff. I am right there with you verbatim. Sunday will be 4 weeks since I walked out of her house. really a surreal feeling
realfriends Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 I just woke up thinking about how sad and unfortunate it is to have her in my life for so long and all of the sudden she's gone. Like many would say, it's like a death. I know this is how break ups should be and this was what she wanted, but it's just depressing how you can go from lovers to complete strangers... This year, I actually experienced the first death of a family member that I was really close to and the death of the relationship with my ex. Two completely different experiences but I must say, for me, the death of the relationship was astronomically harder. To know that the person you love and wanted to spend the rest of your days with is still around, but you can't do anything is a really hard thing to get over. 5
ayudorama Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 This year, I actually experienced the first death of a family member that I was really close to and the death of the relationship with my ex. Two completely different experiences but I must say, for me, the death of the relationship was astronomically harder. To know that the person you love and wanted to spend the rest of your days with is still around, but you can't do anything is a really hard thing to get over. Same experience here. Lost my grandma a few months after I lost someone I loved. The latter is something I still struggle with. I agree wholeheartedly to what conmorse said. How two people can go from lovers to complete strangers is a phenomenon I cannot quite comprehend. I struggle with it everyday, I don't know how it is humanely possible not to. Yet there are people out there who can do it with so much ease. I'd give them a standing ovation if I could.
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