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Loads of female friends. Am I different?


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So, I really like this guy. We met at where I used to work and became friends. I wouldn't say we're super good friends, we've only recently started hanging out just the two of us (in fact the one on one's only happened a few times). But we do talk about everything (EXCEPT our love lives!), so we have a deep friendship. Before there was a mini group of us, but if was clear we had a connection and just wanted to hang out alone. LOL. The thing is, he has LOADS of female friends. So how do I know if I'm different? If I'm the one he actually has romantic feelings for? Or if I'm just one of the other female friends. Oh and he's definitely not gay. He's clarified this. lol.

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Things to be sure in my view:

1)You're just one of his thousands of female friends

because if you were not, he would have taken moves to break the ice

 

2)I'm not saying he is good or bad, but hanging out with a guy has remarkable amount of female friends is a challenge for those who cannot really handle the situation

 

3)Don't set your mind too high over confirming if he's seriously wanna develop a deeper stage with you, just chill out.

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