StyleOnEm Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 I've always wondered this, generally speaking of course... Say you've been dating a 25 year old girl,.. she's very outgoing.. and has a passion for traveling. Not like most people who say they love to travel and only been to a few countries. I mean REALLY passionate about travel. Wants to literally see the world, no matter how small the country is. And she doesn't mind traveling by herself either. It's encoded into her DNA. Do girls like that typically act promiscuous, even while they're in a relationship? It's not like anyone will find out about it if they're traveling by themselves. Is part of the whole "travel experience" getting to sleep with different, interesting cultured people? Is that why some people love to travel so much, because they are free to do whatever they want to do-- whether single or not? Anyone have any personal experiences either YOU are that traveler, or been involved with someone who's like that? I've always been curious...
todreaminblue Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 wanting to travel does not necessarily equate to wanting to bonk your way from country to country....my ex didnt want to travel at all....he bonked his way round anyway...me i would love to visit far off lands out fo the way places....i would love to do it and see that with someone special.......i am unlikely to leave to travel when in a relationship......unless it is to see places and people with my partner......could i be trusted with a roaming spirit.....a travellers heart does not equal promisicuity or disloyalty...i was born into a family of travellers......its in my dna...i dont cheat....and my travelling ancestors were till death did they part, until they meet again on an eternal journey
d0nnivain Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 She is an adventurous spirit & knows herself. Whatever decisions she is going to make, she is going to own them because they are hers. She's not going to be a victim of circumstances. Just because of all that doesn't mean she is promiscuous. I don't see the link at all.
nescafe1982 Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 It's really dangerous to get involved with men while you're travelling alone. I'm not saying it doesn't happen (I saw some of it in the Middle East while there), but smart women aren't going to expose themselves to that kind of risk just to have some sex. Men, on the other hand, are more likely to do this. I've seen a lot of that in my travelling too. I frequently travel alone... I couldn't see anyone who isn't just insanely, dangerously impulsive getting involved with a man for a ONS in a foreign country. If she puts herself in that kind of risk... there's a big red flag in and of itself. 1
MissBee Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 I've always wondered this, generally speaking of course... Say you've been dating a 25 year old girl,.. she's very outgoing.. and has a passion for traveling. Not like most people who say they love to travel and only been to a few countries. I mean REALLY passionate about travel. Wants to literally see the world, no matter how small the country is. And she doesn't mind traveling by herself either. It's encoded into her DNA. Do girls like that typically act promiscuous, even while they're in a relationship? It's not like anyone will find out about it if they're traveling by themselves. Is part of the whole "travel experience" getting to sleep with different, interesting cultured people? Is that why some people love to travel so much, because they are free to do whatever they want to do-- whether single or not? Anyone have any personal experiences either YOU are that traveler, or been involved with someone who's like that? I've always been curious... Ahhh....I don't see the two as related. I do not think liking to travel means you like to sleep around. If you like to sleep around then you'll do it when you travel and even if you don't travel you'll still do it! But liking to travel itself is not an indicator that you're promiscuous. This is one of the cases where when people say the past doesn't matter, I'm like, well....if you have heard her talk about her past and her past experiences you'll have a very good idea about if its been her practice to sleep around on her travels. Has she ever mentioned anything like that? From what you know of her, is there promiscuity in her past? 1
angel.eyes Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 I have traveled extensively (65+ countries at this point). I travelled throughout college and grad school too. A lot of it has been solo, and no, I've never cheated on a boyfriend back home. Character doesn't change. Someone either values commitment or she doesn't. If she doesn't, it doesn't matter that she's a homebody. She'll hookup with the neighbor, the delivery guy, or whoever behind your back. Focus on who you choose to date, rather than her interests and hobbies. 4
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