samuel 123 Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 so i met this girl a year and half ago for 5 minutes , and after that i asked for her fb and we started talking daily , after a month and a half she told me she loves me and we started our long distance relationship officially , after that i asked her to come and visit me and see how we are in real life , how we will be as a couple in real life ( we live in different Continents).. well she came for a month a half and it was the best time of my life , during that time i proposed to her and she said yes , it was amazing ..when she got back to her country we continue to talk and skype for like 4 months , then she changed , she could go for a day or two without texting or saying anything , she said because she is busy at work , she started to act like she doesnt care for me , we even didnt celebrate or anniversary due to family issues from her side , anyways when i talked to her and asked why she is acting this way she confessed to me saying that her mom is cheating on her dad and she wanna divorce and she is cutting me off for a purpose and that she doesnt feel like a gf material anymore , we continued talking for like a week then she asked for a break which i totally gave her , she said she needs time ti figure out her life and then she will decide what we could do , after 3 weeks she ended the realtionship on fb without even asking or telling me anything , when i said why did u do that she said she is a mess and she is sorry , can anyone explain to me what happened , how everyhting changed and if the divorce or her mom cheating could be the only reason , any information needed will be happy to give
justwhoiam Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 (edited) How could we possibly know that? How old are you both? Is she living with her parents? If you proposed to her and she said yes, the least you could do is take a plane and go there. That's how serious a marriage proposal is for me. I realize that you've only known each other for a short time, and you were certainly rushing things. But maybe she had second thoughts, as right in the storm of a divorce, she doesn't feel like getting married... Edited January 17, 2014 by justwhoiam
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