emoore2013 Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 This guy has been ignoring my texts after I got upset with him yet he's sending me snap chats. They are casual and not all personal, but still. Why is he doing this when he obviously knows I'm upset with him?
gaius Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 You're in the timeout chair. He's saying he hasn't forgotten about you but you're being punished for getting upset. 1
soccerrprp Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 This guy has been ignoring my texts after I got upset with him yet he's sending me snap chats. They are casual and not all personal, but still. Why is he doing this when he obviously knows I'm upset with him? He is avoiding the issue. He is either toying with you and really doesn't care why you're upset or he is not good with confronting issues, however benign. Some guys will avoid an issue in the hopes that it will just go away. Certainly not a mature way to handle things. 3
RedRobin Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 He is avoiding the issue. He is either toying with you and really doesn't care why you're upset or he is not good with confronting issues, however benign. Some guys will avoid an issue in the hopes that it will just go away. Certainly not a mature way to handle things. ^^This. That said, it depends on how often you get 'upset'. If getting upset is YOUR standard way of communicating, then I agree with the others. You'd be in the timeout chair for me too. Either way, it is best if you just ask him why he isn't addressing whatever issue it was you were upset about. No need to go to extreme lengths to read smoke signals.
Author emoore2013 Posted January 17, 2014 Author Posted January 17, 2014 Just to clarify, I got upset because I found out he kissed my best friend. She didn't know we were hooking up. I texted him a casual how are you before I found out. He didn't reply. Then I called him once I found out and he didn't answer. No response to my follow up text so I've stopped all contact. Yet he's still contacting me via snapchat which is annoying.
saltyfishhead666 Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Just to clarify, I got upset because I found out he kissed my best friend. She didn't know we were hooking up. I texted him a casual how are you before I found out. He didn't reply. Then I called him once I found out and he didn't answer. No response to my follow up text so I've stopped all contact. Yet he's still contacting me via snapchat which is annoying. So let me get this straight - This guy isn't your boyfriend you are just having sex (at least that is what I understand "hooking up" to mean) In which case you have absolutley no right to be upset. He's single, your single who cares besides you. Go kiss his best friend and get over it.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Just to clarify, I got upset because I found out he kissed my best friend. She didn't know we were hooking up. I texted him a casual how are you before I found out. He didn't reply. Then I called him once I found out and he didn't answer. No response to my follow up text so I've stopped all contact. Yet he's still contacting me via snapchat which is annoying. Welp, that explains why he's not responding to your calls or texts. He's a little boy who's afraid to face the music! Did he know she's your best friend? In any case, forget this guy. He's unwilling to actually speak to you and not worth your time. 1
Thegreatestthing Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 He's probably bored on snapchat. If he was interested he'd not have kissed your best friend,would answer your texts, and wouldn't use you for sex.
Author emoore2013 Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 I think what I'm most upset about is the fact that he didn't answer my casual conversation starter text before I found out. He was answering all others up until then/continues to send snapchats to me. Why do you think he didn't answer that one text? So annoying.
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