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I cheated on my wife. She found out. I left and am now living for a year with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is 7 months pregnant. This is going to be my first child. The problem is that she gets upset all the time because she can’t live with the idea that I am still in contact with my wife. We haven’t gotten a divorce, actually it hasn’t even been started yet. I don’t want to because I fear that my wife is going to sue me for whatever I have, since adultery. We have this business together as a corporation. I still go there and try to help out or at least make it feel that I am still under control. But it’s not really. My wife takes all the money, saying that the business is not running very well. I don’t see why my girlfriend gets so upset all the time when she sees me there at the deli (she works only 5 buildings away from where the deli is) and when she knows that my wife and I have been contacting each other. I know she loves me very much, I can feel that. But I can’t let her make me choose my friends.

 

She moved to the other room last night with some of her clothes. She said that I cannot make up my mind and that I am too friendly with my wife over the phone to consider it purely business. She said that my wife is trying to break us up, because she doesn’t believe that any woman would want to be friends with someone who is openly living with his mistress while being married. If she’s being nice, it can only mean that she has something up her sleeve. And I let her come between us, I allow her to do that by still allowing her to contact me.

 

I don’t know what to do. I feel that she should let me be friends with my wife and never get a divorce, because she knew I was married when she moved in. It is not fair that she gets to go to her ex to pick up her kids, when she won’t allow me to go to my ex and be all friendly with her.

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Fake post. Nice try man.

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tanbark813....geez was I so transparant???? LOL...well, I'm still in this deep mess and tried to see it from his point of view. And yeah...I was puzzled too one time.

 

It sounded just as unbelievable when I try to post it as his problem as when my boyfriend would try to convince me of his actions himself.

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