TT25 Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months now. Since we started dating, he always used to call me every night and we would talk for hours. I recently went to vacation without him for a week and he wasn't calling. I figured it was because he giving me space on vacation. Since I got back, the calling everyday has stopped. He just recently said "I love you" so I think we are moving in the right direction. But some of the sweet wooing stuff like talking on the phone everyday is dying down. Is it wrong or too demanding of me to still expect to talk to my man every day. And not via text because that is highly annoying. 1
Barbarossa Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Talking on the phone can be exhausting for men I will only do it if I must. Why not just talk to him in person?
Author TT25 Posted January 17, 2014 Author Posted January 17, 2014 Talking on the phone can be exhausting for men I will only do it if I must. Why not just talk to him in person? Well we don't see each other everyday. And I don't need to talk for hours everyday. But I think a simple "hey, how was your day" is normal.
Shashasha Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 hmmm.... maybe you should speak to him about it? or you can take it slow and see whether it goes on for a long time...he's probably gotten used to the not calling everyday when you left for a week. x 1
Barbarossa Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Well we don't see each other everyday. And I don't need to talk for hours everyday. But I think a simple "hey, how was your day" is normal. Maybe you could cut him some slack on the days your together? Either way you should tell him how you feel about talking to him on the phone. If he loves you he should be willing to give you the "hey how was your day". 1
MrMeh Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 You could text and ask if you could call him this time. He did say that he loved you and it's something at least I would appreciate because I would feel missed by the other person if they wanted to call me.
Trnamakesnse Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Personally I love talking, it does get old after a while and I'll just sit there quietly. New topics help lol
Poppygoodwill Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Anything that becomes - or seems to become - an obligation, loses its appeal. My ex and I were long distance and talked on the phone every night until it became an expectation that both of us, over the months, began to silently chafe at. Eventually we talked about it and realized we both felt the same way and didn't want to upset or disappoint the other. So we loosened it up a little, and agreed on a code word so that when we called, we could make it clear that we just wanted a quick check in, rather than a full length discussion, and no one took it the wrong way. Perhaps you just need to clarify with him about teh calls and make sure he doesn't feel like it's a duty, as opposed to a pleasure. 1
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