tiki Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 For those who know..... I keep doing it. Most of the time I remember. The past couple of times I've had absolutely no recollection. My husband emailed me this morning: Do you remember waking me up last night? You woke me up talking about how you didn't feel well. I asked if there was anything I could do for you. You were like no. Then we lied there and you got mad at me for something. I still don't know what was going on. But you got mad and told me that if I couldn't do it right that I should just leave. I asked you what you were talking about. You said "Just leave". It's not the first time I've told him to leave. He's told me like 3 other times that I've tried to kick him out -- for NO reason. I guess I need to make an appointment with the sleep disorder doctor again. I'm on no meds, just birth control. I ceased taking my heart med a while back because I thought it was causing it.....newp. I'm upset. I can't believe I'm doing this to him and I feel so sorry for him. He's so patient and understanding. I told him next time to cut on the light and wake me up. That way I'd 'come to'. I just hate for him to have to experience this constantly. It's always something....."someone in the house" or "where are the kids?!" What should I do, you guys?
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 I don't think its that big of deal. Who knows...maybe next time you ask him to have sex. Its not like you know your saying it. I heard your not supposed to wake people who talk or walk in their sleep. Are you getting enough sleep? Look on the bright side......they say you never reveal a secret while your talking in your sleep. So he wont know about your vibrator! See a specialist and you'll prolly have to do a test....(like not sleep for a day) and they'll tell you. But i don't think its that serious. When my ex used to talk....i would laugh.....he wold say the funniest stuff. "Get off my pancakes"...... Makes you think what the f**k are they dreaming about!
Author tiki Posted January 11, 2005 Author Posted January 11, 2005 Yeah, I have a sleep disorder doc already. I've gone in for one overnight + all day the next day sleep study and it SUCKED. I was hooked up to a trillion things. But the next day, I was able to sleep on demand when they told me to. They doagnosed me with a form of narcolepsy...it sounds bad, but it's really not. It's just a form of it. I can fall asleep within a few seconds of laying my head down. I've fallen asleep driving, in seminars, at work, school, at the movies (all the time)...etc. Husband says maybe I shouldn't go back just yet. I've pulled out mace (to spray a fake intruder), yelled, screamed (woke up my son), made phone calls in my sleep...crap like that. I've even walked down two flights of stairs and went out into my garage. I'm a nutcase, I know. But I'm interesting!
GirlDown Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 i do the same things! oh wait, it's when i'm drunk though... but seriously, i have had my boyfriend wake me up and tell me that i was obviously having a sex dream because i was grinding on him and moaning and all this crazy stuff. when i asked why he would wake me up from such an obviously enjoyable dream, he said "uhhhhhh...cause it made me want to have sex" we really do have the best sex then, though!
savethedrama4allama Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 Wow, I am one of those people who can sleep through natural disasters without so much as stirring. I am not sure what you should do, but I don't think you should feel bad about it. Your hubby knows that you don't mean it, you're sleeping- in your dreams you are probably talking to someone else anyway! Is it getting in the way of his restful sleep?
kit4kat Posted January 14, 2005 Posted January 14, 2005 I sleep talk and sleep walk... I have since I was a kid. I don't really know if I sleep talk unless someone is in the room with me. My roommate about a year ago came into my room one morning, I apparently yelled at her for 10 minutes... and I didn't recall a thing. She thought it was the funniest thing ever, because after I yelled I said something in the sweetest voice. The only thing I remember is her walking in, and I remember that vaugely. Sleep walking is always a trip. I do it constantly. I'll wake up in the mornings and things have been moved, or clothes have been put on or taken off. Two days ago I woke up with a sweatshirt on and one sock, over my PJ's that I was already wearing. Don't worry about it Tiki, it happens. It doesn't mean anything bad, at least I hope not. I've told Jr High girls at summer camp once to get out of my cabin (I was the counselor) because I didn't know them and they weren't in my cabin. I've yelled at my dad, I mumble all the time... mostly people get a kick out of it.
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