apetoape Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I'll put it in bullet points so its easier -Met girl online and dated her for 3 Months, had sex after 3 dates and every time we see each other after. -Everything seemed to be great until 2 weeks ago. Communication from her end died down substantially -I asked to see her and she said she was busy and will let me know when she is free. This was 2 weeks ago and she never got back to me on that. -Our last communication was 1 week ago where i sent her a text and didn't get a response until the next day. Responded back and with a little teasing but didn't get any response back. -Today - 1 week since any communication between us. My question. Is she playing hard to get or has lost any interest? Found a new guy perhaps? Anyway, I'm thinking of getting in contact with her today...any opinions?
TXGuy Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 That is not playing hard to get. That sounds more like a fade out. It's likely caused by a new guy. If things don't work out with him, she might come back for a while.
mariposa_13 Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 As a woman, I'd say she would only be playing hard to get at the beginning, or if she felt you were losing interest to try and gain your interest back. If you have been teasing her and contacting her, I'd say this wouldn't be the case.. If 3 months have passed, I'd say she's losing interest, either something has come up in her life and she's distracted/busy.. or maybe she's re-evaluating the relationship.. or she has met someone else.. Sorry 2
Frank2thepoint Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Anyway, I'm thinking of getting in contact with her today...any opinions? No. Don't bother. She did the quick fade and pulled out of the relationship. Just be happy you had three months of good times with her. Let this one go. Delete her number, forget her name, forget her face. Move on. 1
Author apetoape Posted January 17, 2014 Author Posted January 17, 2014 That's what I was thinking. She was going at 100% the entire relationship but the moment i finally showed some emotion and take an interest in her she pulls all the way back. Why are women so insane...
Poppygoodwill Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 We are not insane :-) She just lost interest. three months of dating is about right to get a sense of someone and realize they're just not right for you. Instead of doing the right thing and telling you straight, she chickened out and faded away. Bad form. Don't waste any more time on her, except if you want to take this as a teaching moment and tell her how her fade out has impacted on you. But if you do give her a piece of your mind, *make sure* it's not because you're hoping for a resurrection, cause it definitely won't happen after that. 1
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