regine_phalange Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 My ex boyfriend asked me to send him by mail a book he lent me. He said he has also a book of mine which he will return, but I don't even remember which one is it. I am very pissed right now, mainly because I had almost forgotten about him, and then he texted me. Shall I put all his gifts in a box and send them too, just in case? Or is he going to complain that they are mine etc.? I dont want him to communicate with me again.
Philosoraptor Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Yes, send him everything that is his. Simply respond "I'll get them in the mail". 1
Zahara Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 There is no need to box up gifts he has given you and return but box up all his belongings -- go through your place and find anything that belongs to him and return. Pack the gifts and hide it somewhere so you are not reminded. If you return gifts it will cause drama. Very seldom do people ask for gifts back. 1
Author regine_phalange Posted January 16, 2014 Author Posted January 16, 2014 Okay. There is nothing else that belongs to him in my house. All the other things are gifts he gave me. So I;m going to send thy book and hope we are done.
Zahara Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Okay. There is nothing else that belongs to him in my house. All the other things are gifts he gave me. So I;m going to send that and hope we are done. Yes, just the book and be done with it. Don't even have to reply to him about you mailing his stuff or acknowledging his contact.
Author regine_phalange Posted January 16, 2014 Author Posted January 16, 2014 Yes, just the book and be done with it. Don't even have to reply to him about you mailing his stuff or acknowledging his contact. Thanks. I just replied to him "Sure."
Author regine_phalange Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 Lovely. I received the book he sent me with a letter full of blame. Why? Because I couldnt handle the fact that he cheated on me and I "ran away" without trying to fix things. What kind of cheap guilt tripping is this? I have nothing to say. I'm very dissapointed, mainly on myself, by spending time with someone who can't see things clear and can't use their head.
Philosoraptor Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Lovely. I received the book he sent me with a letter full of blame. Why? Because I couldnt handle the fact that he cheated on me and I "ran away" without trying to fix things. What kind of cheap guilt tripping is this? I have nothing to say. I'm very dissapointed, mainly on myself, by spending time with someone who can't see things clear and can't use their head. What a piece of scum he is. Congrats on getting away from him. 1
No Limit Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Because I couldnt handle the fact that he cheated on me and I "ran away" without trying to fix things. L.M.A.O! Some people really think very highly of themselves, eh? As if he was the perfect nice guy everyone has to be with... 2
TaraMaiden Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Lovely. I received the book he sent me with a letter full of blame. Why? Because I couldnt handle the fact that he cheated on me and I "ran away" without trying to fix things. What kind of cheap guilt tripping is this? I have nothing to say. I'm very dissapointed, mainly on myself, by spending time with someone who can't see things clear and can't use their head. Go outside and find a lump if old, dried dog crap. Put it in an envelope with a note. "Thanks. Got your bullschytt. have some back." Or simply send his note back, with a covering letter, ""Received this junk mail, not required. Thanks." 1
lucky_penny Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 WOW what a jerk!! I had an ex that tried to be friendly with me, only to manipulate me into revealing whether or not I was sleeping with this other guy I was dating because he "heard things about this guy and STD's" and was concerned for my health. He made the whole thing up obviously and I was LIVID. I have never spoken or seen him since. It actually made cutting him out of my life even easier. At least you can walk away with your head held high because you know you're better than that scum! 1
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