doubled Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I haven't posted in a while. My ex WH found out I am on here and reads my posts. Just wanted to give an update to my LS friends. My divorce is almost final. I'm still seeing the man I met. He is really great to spend time with. I'm doing pretty good. Adjusting to missing my kids every other weekend. Thank you for all the great advice and conversations. Thanks for sharing your stories. It really helped. Maybe in the future I will be back. And hello to my cheating ex who I know is reading this. 7
Chi townD Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Soooo, is this a "rub it in your face" post or what? I don't get it. Glad you're moving on with your life?
lilmisscantbewrong Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 How did he find out you were posting here? Glad all is going well for you.
Betrayed&Stayed Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Is your cheating ex still with the OW? Peace as you move forward.
whichwayisup Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I haven't posted in a while. My ex WH found out I am on here and reads my posts. Just wanted to give an update to my LS friends. My divorce is almost final. I'm still seeing the man I met. He is really great to spend time with. I'm doing pretty good. Adjusting to missing my kids every other weekend. Thank you for all the great advice and conversations. Thanks for sharing your stories. It really helped. Maybe in the future I will be back. And hello to my cheating ex who I know is reading this. Wish you the best, keep focusing on you, your kids and take things slowly with the new guy. You've been through so much (thanks to your exWH) emotionally and had to deal with many changes.
harrybrown Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I am not your cheating ex, but do you have anything else you would like to tell your ex? Maybe a good idea to wait until the D is final.
Author doubled Posted January 17, 2014 Author Posted January 17, 2014 My ex and the ow are together, living together actually. She made a point of letting me know when I was picking my kids up from school. He found me on here when he came to pick up the kids last week and I mistakenly left my laptop on with the LS site open when I was upstairs throwing some last minute things in my kids bags. I had been on earlier before they came home from school. He let me know when he brought the kids home that he looked me up and read everything.
harrybrown Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Ouch! That is a real kick in the teeth. But if she would cheat with him, she will cheat on him. 1
tiredofitall2 Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 READ THIS BUDDY! You're an A**HOLE FOR ABANDONING YOUR W AND KIDS! LOL 4
i am gutted Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 READ THIS BUDDY! You're an A**HOLE FOR ABANDONING YOUR W AND KIDS! LOL LOL nice one
turnera Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 He let me know when he brought the kids home that he looked me up and read everything.So? Sounds like a personal problem for him, to me.
turnera Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 Ouch! That is a real kick in the teeth. But if she would cheat with him, she will cheat on him.And he will cheat on her, too. Match made in heaven.
longjourney Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 My ex and the ow are together, living together actually. She made a point of letting me know when I was picking my kids up from school. He found me on here when he came to pick up the kids last week and I mistakenly left my laptop on with the LS site open when I was upstairs throwing some last minute things in my kids bags. I had been on earlier before they came home from school. He let me know when he brought the kids home that he looked me up and read everything. I remember you writing previously that your WH knew about the other man you are seeing, and your WH obviously already knows you are almost divorced, so there is not much of anything that he could have learned here from your writing. You said you found out from his girlfriend, (your ex friend) that they were living together. So where did you think you were sending your kid every weekend when your WH comes for the weekend pick up? I would think you would have found this info out from your child where he/she spent the weekend? That just didn't make sense to me. Is your WH encouraging lying to you?? And gently, since you know your WH is reading your posts, you writing any further about your new boyfriend is you trying to stick it to him, which sounds as if you are not as "over it" as you may think. Honestly I could see myself playing the same game at this point in my journey because my self esteem is also shattered. I just hope that when I am years out from DDay I will be a little stronger. That is my wish for all BS's who go through this, especially an LTA. I am sorry to see you go Doubled. Your open and honest posts have given me A LOT to think about in my M. You have given me strength to continue on in my divorce this early on after DDay because I could not take looking over my shoulder as you managed to do for so many years to only wind up with the same outcome. I am happy that the OW in my WH's LTA is staying with her BH because to think of my kids spending their weekends with them in their love nest would be the final straw to break me.
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