Thedafox Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I met this girl on OLD on the 11th of December and we met up about a week later. We've gone on a handful of dates, one including 2 kids she takes care off on Wednesday,Thursday and Friday. We have a lot in common, we genuinely enjoy each others presence and talked about getting together so many times but I never actually "asked" her out. Now comes the weird part, today she hasn't been texting as much as she normally does so I ask her what's wrong and says she has a headache and she doesn't talk much when she has one. So I just leave her alone for about 7 hours and she finally shoots me a text message about 2 hours ago. So we're talking and she's sending nothing but few words in response to what I'm asking. I tend to overthink things based of my gut feeling so I asked her "Are we ok?" I get a " No, I just feel like I have shared emotions right now." I end up telling her "Ok, figure things out and get back to me." Her birthday is in 2 days and I'm curious should I even expect to go to it knowing what she feels right now and even if I should "wait" on her to figure things out. What is the right course of action?
angelcake Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I don't know what "shared emotions" means...maybe it was a typo on her part? Regardless, I would do what you said and just wait for her to get back to you.
GemmaUK Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 So, have you asked her what 'shared emotions' means? If you are quite clingy then she could be feeling suffocated from that. Is the contact and relationship based more around what you 'need' than what she needs? As in, not a balance of what you both need?
Author Thedafox Posted January 16, 2014 Author Posted January 16, 2014 So, have you asked her what 'shared emotions' means? If you are quite clingy then she could be feeling suffocated from that. Is the contact and relationship based more around what you 'need' than what she needs? As in, not a balance of what you both need? I think she meant it as she has feelings for someone else but that's a guess of mine, I told her to think it over and get back to me. And to the poster above, I probably have been a bit "clingy" and I did catch myself after I posted this, I will be giving it some time and I'm not investing myself any further.
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