Regrets

[Bishop556]

My ex and I broke up two months ago due to a bad fight we had and my depression. I begged, pleaded, offered couple counseling, offered therapy, walked to her house with a candle and a card to apologize, wrote her a two page letter telling her my feelings, did favors post break up for her, and so on. I made a few mistakes though. I believed the break up was an overreaction and unfair as she started being intimate with another guy three days after we ended. I wrote a blog post about it to vent to myself, and eventually she read it. I had no followers on my blog, so she must have found it by searching it herself. Well, we had an argument, but made peace afterwards. I apologized for my actions, and we were on better terms. Without going into detail about her actions, I feel regret as I could have done something more to try to maintain the relationship. I know we all make mistakes post break up, but I feel like I can't move past them.

Edited January 16, 2014 by Bishop556

[Philosoraptor]

Is this the same ex you raised a fist to during an argument? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/449825-venting

 

If so, you need to learn from this mistake and make better choices in your next relationship. She has made it clear that things are not going to work out so work on moving on and becoming the best person you can be.