why oh why Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Asked my ex to meet for a coffee for an hour as things need to be said in person rather than by text. Kids etc.....she text back after 2 days and no I won't meet you...she was the one who ended 9 yrs of marriage...... she said I'm putting my self first not you.....so we can't be friends. She said she been unhappy and been losing her for years....and that if she hadnt ended it.....I would never had changed and she would have been unhappy for the rest if her life.....I have faults yes.....but she seems to think its all down to me. She was at fault to......no passion .affection intermacy from her.....and she Dont seem to think she done nothing wrong! She said move on She said she deserves more and is worth more which after 9 yes was awful to hear She said no more chances its over forever she said I had my chances and blew it Told her I would do whatever to make it work......but just get blanked Told her I Dont want this.....but have to accept its over So its back to day 3 of NC. And trying not to think about her
FortunateSon Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Given the fact she seems to accept no responsibility for the relationships issues and blames your for everything, I'd say the split will likely be for the better, even if it doesn't seem like it now. People with that outlook never seem to be satisfied or find happiness. I dealt with the same thing in my last relationship with my ex, it's no way to live.
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