Why do men enjoy the chase so much?

[Mimsicles]

If you read my previous threads, you will see I was dating this guy for a couple of months before he started stringing me along. I had to initiated all contact etc. Anyway turns out he was stringing more than one of us along...a right player from what I gather.

 

I took a lot of peoples advice on her and stopped contacting him. As soon as ive started to ignore him he seems to have come running! If he doesnt text he will snapchat me personally asking questions etc. I cant seem to get rid of him. Ive still not replied to a single text or snapchat but he's still continuing.

 

I just wondered why some men enjoy the chase so much. When I made me feelings clear that I was interested he didn't want to know. I start ignoring him and he won't leave me alone! Is this normal?

 

P.s There is no way im going to contact him as I am aware he is not worthy of my time.

[CrystalCastles]

I don't think you need to care about the reason. You just need to recognize quickly the guys that are like that and get away from them ASAP.

[soccerrprp]

Is this normal?

 

P.s There is no way im going to contact him as I am aware he is not worthy of my time.

 

I don't get it. Do you think this is NORMAL? Why even ask this question to which there is an obvious answer and then tell us that you have no intention of contacting him, giving him the time of day?

 

Why waste time asking about something you already know the answer to...MOVE ON.

[BJP56]

Hes is not respecting your "space".

 

Im a guy and I respect space. He is not doing that and thats a bit creepy.

[potsticker]

the higher the hurdle the better they'll feel when they clear it? I guess being all goal oriented like that, they like having a challenge for the sake of filling up their ego after they've accomplished it? I wouldn't really know but that's my guess