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My ex whom I've written previous posts about is puzzling me. I ended the relationship at the end of November and have not contacted her since, nor do I feel any want to. I've found someone else who makes me happier and has almost all of the qualities I was looking for in the first place.

 

For the most part, she's stayed away as well, except for three separate occasions. A week after we were done and I was on vacation she sent a late night "I miss you." text. I deleted it and went about my business. A few weeks ago I got a call from her, I rejected it, and proceeded to recieve a 5 minute voice mail from her pocket. I didn't respond, and didn't say anything, neither has she.

 

All was well and good until about a week ago. I came home from work, and my mom handed me a letter from my ex. Apparently she had dropped it off before I got home, she rang the doorbell dropped it and ran. It was a dressed to my parents, and just had a few lines of random conversation on a card.

She NEVER talked to my parents. She'd hide in my room to avoid eating dinner with them. And this is far more effort than she normally outs forth, especially because she doesn't even have a car.

 

What's her angle and should I be worried about more of this? I don't want it interfering with my current relationship.

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My ex whom I've written previous posts about is puzzling me. I ended the relationship at the end of November and have not contacted her since, nor do I feel any want to. I've found someone else who makes me happier and has almost all of the qualities I was looking for in the first place.

 

For the most part, she's stayed away as well, except for three separate occasions. A week after we were done and I was on vacation she sent a late night "I miss you." text. I deleted it and went about my business. A few weeks ago I got a call from her, I rejected it, and proceeded to recieve a 5 minute voice mail from her pocket. I didn't respond, and didn't say anything, neither has she.

 

All was well and good until about a week ago. I came home from work, and my mom handed me a letter from my ex. Apparently she had dropped it off before I got home, she rang the doorbell dropped it and ran. It was a dressed to my parents, and just had a few lines of random conversation on a card.

She NEVER talked to my parents. She'd hide in my room to avoid eating dinner with them. And this is far more effort than she normally outs forth, especially because she doesn't even have a car.

 

What's her angle and should I be worried about more of this? I don't want it interfering with my current relationship.

 

I'm assuming she was the one whose feelings changed for whatever reason and you decided you had enough. That's why you broke it off, correct?

 

If she is, it sounds like she is playing with you, mate. If she really wanted to talk to you, she would. Don't read the letter and keep doing your thing of ignoring her.

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