FrostBlaze Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 (edited) Make it short. Ex contacted me to make up, didn't work out, decided to stay friends.(we're broke for like 2 years). I tried to be friend with her, but i feel more for her unfortunately, and i get jealous over stuff, plus she kinda like INTENTLY pushes these stuff in my face, like liking other boys n stuff. (telling me about how hot that guy iz, or..stuff) Should i just leave or what to do? :\ i like her, but this is going nowhere i think. Edited January 15, 2014 by FrostBlaze
d0nnivain Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 She may want your friendship & only your friendship back. She may get an ego boost from pushing your buttons & rubbing it in your face what you can't have any more. If you want more than she's offering back off. If you accidently & unexpectedly run into her somewhere, be cordial but don't go out of your way to keep in contact with her. It will be too painful for you.
potsticker Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 if it's hurting you, you need to break it off. If she doesn't "want to lose the friendship" even though she knows she's hurting you in the process, she definitely never deserved you anyways. Hopefully she'll let you go peacefully, and hopefully you'll be able to heal and once again join the mating rat race
Author FrostBlaze Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 Yeah probably for the best, but i don't want to just dissappear, i find it very rude, i feel like i owe it to her to at least tell her why or say my goodbye. I just don't know how to proceed.
potsticker Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Yeah probably for the best, but i don't want to just dissappear, i find it very rude, i feel like i owe it to her to at least tell her why or say my goodbye. I just don't know how to proceed. You need to get a moment with her for a serious conversation. Don't pussyfoot around it, just let her know in a serious tone that you need to talk to her, preferably when she seems to be in a receptive mood. Somehow convey that her taking this seriously is very important to you. Then let her know that while you've tried to remain friends, that your feelings for her are still there and that they are really hurting you. Let her know that you cannot go on like this. She needs to understand that contact with her is not good for you, and that's why you need this friendship to end. From there, you'll need to wing it depending on how she responds.
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