hpjunke Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 I have been contemplating weather I should send this girl an email or a text to get some things I wanna get off my chest . In a nutshell this is the third time we have reconnected and she has proven that the same person came out not long after we talked and I can't or wanna go on like this so at this point we are not talking . So I want to send her an email and be done for my sanity Thoughts ?
mammasita Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Nope. Just leave it alone, move on and erase her from your life. Don't fall into the trap again.
Author hpjunke Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 Nope. Just leave it alone, move on and erase her from your life. Don't fall into the trap again. not even if it helps me get over this mess ??
deathandtaxes Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 not even if it helps me get over this mess ?? Not sending it and just forgetting about will help you move on. It is obviously not going to work between you two, so what's the point of sending her anything? How about this - write something and send it to yourself?
pickflicker Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 not even if it helps me get over this mess ?? You'll get over it by not going back to her. Just delete her and move forward. If you open the lines of communication, even with a scathing letter, you'll just end up in the same place. She'll apologise and cajole and before you know it, you'll be in the thick of it again.
Author hpjunke Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 I just hear a lot of things I should do from my other girlfriends etc .. I have written some things down etc but I'm trying to think with the head not the heart here ..
d0nnivain Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Do not sent such an email. If you need to write it, do so. That is very cathartic. But print it & in a safe controlled setting set it on fire. You will still feel better. You sending her that e-mail just proves she has power over you & in a worst case scenario she can electronically transmit it wherever & the next thing you know it will go viral. 1
pickflicker Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 I just hear a lot of things I should do from my other girlfriends etc .. I have written some things down etc but I'm trying to think with the head not the heart here .. Nothing pisses off a person who broke your heart more than the projection that you are totally indifferent to their actions. Silence is indifference, even if you don't fell it, you only have to project it. Don't send the letter.
Author hpjunke Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 Do not sent such an email. If you need to write it, do so. That is very cathartic. But print it & in a safe controlled setting set it on fire. You will still feel better. You sending her that e-mail just proves she has power over you & in a worst case scenario she can electronically transmit it wherever & the next thing you know it will go viral. I have thought about this plenty of times and agree ..
Author hpjunke Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 Nothing pisses off a person who broke your heart more than the projection that you are totally indifferent to their actions. Silence is indifference, even if you don't fell it, you only have to project it. Don't send the letter. I'll have to do this even though it's really hard and we all know I wanna say my thoughts and feelings I'm gonna have to just not be around and disappear if this person texts me or tries to contact me ..
Author hpjunke Posted January 19, 2014 Author Posted January 19, 2014 Update : I wanted to update you guys on what happened last night after i came home i was just calling it a night and what do you know at 1:30 am i get a phone call from her .. i did not answer it nor have i said anything via text or call back .
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