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my man home from work sleeping as per his mom but never calls me

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ever since I been in this relationship with my bf/fiance mom always thinks that I pick on little things.... I know Im not crazy! He always forgets or dont care and his mom always picking up for him. So today I did not get any phone calls from him. I called his mom (he lives with) she told me he did not went to work and he sleeping all day. Okay! so when was I to know? Its okay mommy comfortable with his son home sleeping, (any mom wil be happy) when would the woman in his life know where he is.. " I told his mom he not living with me so I wouldnt know until he calls which he as a big problem doing.

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should I feel like I'm the one the proble ?

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He still lives at home but isn't responsible enough to go to work every day? If today was his day off, I would expect that you would know your finance's schedule. If his mom is still taking care of him & he can't even pick up after himself you may want to rethink your future.

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The problem isn't his mom, it's the fact that he is not meeting your expectations.

 

If you want him to call you more & let you know what's going on, then you have to communicate that to him. Tell him that when you are in a relationship, you need daily contact in order to feel connected.

 

If he doesn't consider your feelings about this, then you have to decide if this guy is the right person for you.

 

If he doesn't call you, don't call his mom looking for him. Just leave him a message and wait for him to call you.

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He still lives at home but isn't responsible enough to go to work every day? If today was his day off, I would expect that you would know your finance's schedule. If his mom is still taking care of him & he can't even pick up after himself you may want to rethink your future.

You are right I feel like a fool all the time.

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The problem isn't his mom, it's the fact that he is not meeting your expectations.

 

If you want him to call you more & let you know what's going on, then you have to communicate that to him. Tell him that when you are in a relationship, you need daily contact in order to feel connected.

 

If he doesn't consider your feelings about this, then you have to decide if this guy is the right person for you.

 

If he doesn't call you, don't call his mom looking for him. Just leave him a message and wait for him to call you.

> eversince I been with him the whole of last year I was always the one doing and doing for him always keeping in touch and everything. Its a new year and Im planning to let him know ..... I called his mom to say hello! she was the one told me he was not working today. I said to her I am still waiting for a call from him... then she gives all the excuses for him, I told her it was his responsibility to call me

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