Author Chinaski Posted January 16, 2014 Author Posted January 16, 2014 And, oh the harm someone's Daddy must have caused you... Yeah, two can play that game.... https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B554iyc7-cKTSk90MjlRTWc2UzA/edit?usp=sharing
Aquanut Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 The mix tape was a bit much for a meet and greet- you didn't tell us that part originally. And the second kiss was too eager and maybe pushy. You were too invested too early and that can scare people away. At end of first dates that go well I tell her I'd like to get together again sometime. If she says me too then I tell her something like How about I call you on Wednesday to set something up. Why leave her hanging wonder whether you'll call? Life is too short for those types of games. I never kiss after meet and greets which I don't count as dates usually. I only kiss on the first date if her body language clearly says kiss me. On the second date during the date and not afterward when it's expected. I move in for the kiss if there is an opportunity. It's never a big kiss and I pull away quickly. I want to be spontaneous and not follow all the rules all the time. I want her to know I kissed her because I like her and not because I think it's what I'm supposed to do. Now she has the rest of the date to think wow he kissed me instead of wondering whether he will kiss me afterward and what it will be like. Case in point: my gf and I were laughing and smiling about something on our second date. I said I love your smile and then kissed her. The moment caught her by complete surprise. As we were leaving I walked her to her car. We embraced and I kissed her. She pulled me toward her and I kissed her again this time for much longer. I said skating on Wednesday sounds fun (she had invited me earlier). Then I turned and walked away down the moonlit street to my car. Inside she silently whimpered come back. I want more. But I was gone. She knew she would see me again on Wednesday. It's good to leave a woman looking forward to seeing you. Anticipation is much more important than the reality.
BlametheIrish Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 She probably didn't mention the CD as it's very reminiscent of High School dating. If you want to.find out a woman's taste in music then chat her up about it on your date. Save the cd for a later date, like if she showed interest in a certain music group that you enjoy. Next time you have a cd with similar music she may enjoy on it. It comes off as thoughtful and less juvenile. 1
ChessPieceFace Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Your situation was way too perfect. You should definitely overthink everything and create problems where none exist.
organizedchaos Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 I think you lost her with the over eager kiss and over eager mix cd.
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