soulz Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Just wanted to know if any of you have made an affair into a successful real relationship and what problems you’ll faced? if you’ll ever had any trust issues and guilt issues? and is it really possible to get past the issues?
Philosoraptor Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Trust issues are hard to repair in any relationship. A relationship that begins with trust issues already present is at a horrible disadvantage. If there are true trust issues there is a reason for them... and if there's a reason for them then there's a reason enough to end the relationship.
WrinkledForehead Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 This probably belongs in the OM/OW section. But yes. I am in a post affair relationship. He got the guilt and I got the insecurities. It is something we make steps to work through. He has done nothing to break my trust and has been honest and upfront the whole time we've known each other, and vice versa. We did some heavy evaluation in critical areas to ensure he wasn't leaving his LTR on a whim or specifically for me. We are fundamentally compatible and he left because that R was broken and had been for some time. It takes self evaluation and emotional intelligence. He is in IC and I am working on getting in. I love him for being the amazing man he is who adds significant value to my life and inspires me to be a better person and vice versa. We're commited to each other and making this work so no matter how hard the hard stuff is right now, we've a vision of blue, of the sky, and dry land. Things are, for the most part, as lovely as you'd expect any healthy R to be. We have a bit more work cut out for us than most couples do.
Author soulz Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 how long have you'll been together ?
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