emoore2013 Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 So this guy and I had been talking on and off. Nothing serious because I was away from school for some time. But we have always kept in contact, and I have feelings towards him mostly because he was the first person I tried having sex with. Prior to me leaving school, we were hooking up occasionally. I didn't like him up until I left for school. After I got back we were still texting/snapchatting every now and then but neither of us made plans to see each other. Anyway, I found out he kissed one of my good friends. My friend says she didn't know even though I swore I told her. She feels really bad about it. He told her he didn't know we were friends, but who knows for sure because he hasn't spoke to me since. And obviously we're not together so I have no control over him. But, I still feel upset over it. I texted and tried calling him after I found out with no response. He immediately read the text so I know that he was on his phone at the time. So yeah basically he hasn't been responding to me yet I know he's read my text and he's been looking at my snapchats. Where do I go from here and what do you think he's thinking? I know we can't read minds but still.
cheatingmyself Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Honestly, it seems like there's a pretty slim chance that he wouldn't know she was your friend and vice versa. At least she's sorry but still seems sketchy of her. I'd flip the **** out if one of my mates did that. Whatever you do, don't text him or snap chat him. Just stop all contact with him, IF he wants to talk to you or snapchat you then he will. But for now just let it be, otherwise you'll look like a crazy girl [even though you're not, but that's basically how he'll interpret it] 3
Shashasha Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Honestly, it seems like there's a pretty slim chance that he wouldn't know she was your friend and vice versa. At least she's sorry but still seems sketchy of her. I'd flip the **** out if one of my mates did that. Whatever you do, don't text him or snap chat him. Just stop all contact with him, IF he wants to talk to you or snapchat you then he will. But for now just let it be, otherwise you'll look like a crazy girl [even though you're not, but that's basically how he'll interpret it] AGREED. Don't text him anymore.
Author emoore2013 Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 My friend is definitely telling the truth but as for him I don't know. I was away from my friends at school and him for over a year so maybe he really didn't know? All I know is he is being passive aggressive which is frustrating.
Author emoore2013 Posted January 17, 2014 Author Posted January 17, 2014 Honestly, it seems like there's a pretty slim chance that he wouldn't know she was your friend and vice versa. At least she's sorry but still seems sketchy of her. I'd flip the **** out if one of my mates did that. Whatever you do, don't text him or snap chat him. Just stop all contact with him, IF he wants to talk to you or snapchat you then he will. But for now just let it be, otherwise you'll look like a crazy girl [even though you're not, but that's basically how he'll interpret it] He's starting to snapchat me now. But still no reply to my texts. Is he just playing games?
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