Author Mondmellonw Posted January 16, 2014 Author Posted January 16, 2014 I thoght being 31 and liking a girl of 22 was ok. Apparently not. She had other plans. 3 Years is nothing, 9 years is a bit shaky. Oh, I'm sorry about that! Actually, I had met several people who's their partner is even, 10 years older. I guess it depends on the individual! 1
BJP56 Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Oh, I'm sorry about that! Actually, I had met several people who's their partner is even, 10 years older. I guess it depends on the individual! That is very true, What often went through my mind is maturity level. I kept thinking to my self is this an immature relationship? To put it into context she already has a 4yr degree at 22 and is going to grad school come this August. Me? Just an Associates degree because I cannot afford college like she can.
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 16, 2014 Author Posted January 16, 2014 That is very true, What often went through my mind is maturity level. I kept thinking to my self is this an immature relationship? To put it into context she already has a 4yr degree at 22 and is going to grad school come this August. Me? Just an Associates degree because I cannot afford college like she can. Umh. Sounds to me like you're kind of devaluating yourself a little bit? If it didn't worked with her, it will work with another women I am just 20, currently on college. The last year I turned this age, and I figured I was losing my time a lot... So I started to take music classes, and a lot of other "new things". Like they say: Better late than never. As for me with this boy, we'll see... I don't really think of him as a couple, haha. He is too cute and too young for it. 1
BJP56 Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Umh. Sounds to me like you're kind of devaluating yourself a little bit? If it didn't worked with her, it will work with another women I am just 20, currently on college. The last year I turned this age, and I figured I was losing my time a lot... So I started to take music classes, and a lot of other "new things". Like they say: Better late than never. As for me with this boy, we'll see... I don't really think of him as a couple, haha. He is too cute and too young for it. LOL Late bloomer people often say to me. 1
mano Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I think it depends on the individual and their maturity. I started dating my bf when he was 15 and i was 18. And now we are 22 and 19. I would say that start from friendship and then see if you two are compatible enough to make it work. 1
gaius Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I had a 40 something sending me breast shots when I was younger than your 17 year old and I loved every minute of it. As long as it's legal and he's doing the initiating go for it. He'll probably talk about you the rest of his life even if it doesn't work out.
BOREDouttaMymind Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 yes. it is. nothing to do with gender, or inequality or crap like that. its just known facts that men mature much younger than women. why do you think girls in 4th grade are several feet taller than their boy counterparts? 95% chance it doesn't work out simply because he's younger. 1
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 16, 2014 Author Posted January 16, 2014 yes. it is. nothing to do with gender, or inequality or crap like that. its just known facts that men mature much younger than women. why do you think girls in 4th grade are several feet taller than their boy counterparts? 95% chance it doesn't work out simply because he's younger. Maybe. But I think.... Everyone said that my last relationship was going to be a total win. And it was terrible. So, we'll see, it might not even be a date. I don't want relationships, friends with benefits or anything like that. Just want to meet people.
Chica411 Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 I'm 28. I've found that older guys, who I thought would be more mature, were only better at their games. Younger guys have seemed sweeter. I think it just depends on the person. 1
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