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decode my boyfriends behavior...will he dump me soon


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My boyfriend and I have been together officially 6 months. I am his first official gf (the longest he has dated has been 4 dates!) We are 24. We had a huge fight 2 weeks ago due to him holding in some things I was doing that bothered him (mostly minor things) but he never communicated them until then. He actually tried to break up with me 2 days after the fight but we talked and he promised to communicate better from then on. Then 2 days after we made up, we had another conversation about the fight and it became heated and though I thought we resolved it towards the end, he stated that he was “unsure” about us before hanging up.

 

I went and hung out with him the day after this conversation (on the day of the week we usually hang out after work, for about 4 or so hours) and he acted a little weird at first… but after 2 hours was more touchy feely than usual and we had sex three times. I asked him if he thought about me at all that day and he said “yeah, a bit, but I wasn’t sure if it’d be weird or not…” and I said “well I don’t think its weird, do you?” and he said no but kind of hesitated. This is the first time he’s ever had a blowout with a girl…

 

Is this good or bad??? Im wondering if hes going to dump me so Im keeping my guard up

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How would it change things if he decided to is what I'm wondering in my head.. Anyway I'd say just try and be nice people get upset give him some time he might cool off. Try not to bring the subject up again, personally it would have gotten heated with me too. A month or so after a big fight I'd be willing to discuss it without get emotional about it again. Idk just me.

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