deathandtaxes Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Works out of town all week. How convenient for him. You're being played.
mrs rubble Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Seeing as how you're too gutless to confront him, you could always set up a fake profile on the dating site and ask him about his last relationship there. He sounds like a player to me.
Author PleasantonGirl Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 Ok, so you're all telling me he is looking to REPLACE me and DUMP me for good, am I correct? Oh, please, he really,thinks he's gonna find a better woman than I am? Really? Has he lost his frickin mind?! He promised marriage this year. My younger bro did this to his now wife. He had a revolving door of women. She left him. 2 weeks later he begged her to come back and they're now happily married. Men hit on me in front of him often. I'm afraid that was a sore spot for him.
Author PleasantonGirl Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 I'm not gutless, I just don't see the point confronting him cause he will make up a story or blame me and I don't want to fight over this. NC? No contact? 1
TaraMaiden Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Ok, so you're all telling me he is looking to REPLACE me and DUMP me for good, am I correct? Possibly. or he could be playing behind your back.... Oh, please, he really,thinks he's gonna find a better woman than I am? Really? Has he lost his frickin mind?! He promised marriage this year. Yeh. You gonna let that happen? I frickin' well hope not.... My younger bro did this to his now wife. He had a revolving door of women. She left him. 2 weeks later he begged her to come back and they're now happily married. Again, comparing your situation to that of others doesn't make them alike. Men hit on me in front of him often. I'm afraid that was a sore spot for him. Well then you won't be alone for long, but I really would ditch this player. he really isn't the one for you.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Ok, so you're all telling me he is looking to REPLACE me and DUMP me for good, am I correct? Oh, please, he really,thinks he's gonna find a better woman than I am? Really? Has he lost his frickin mind?! He promised marriage this year. My younger bro did this to his now wife. He had a revolving door of women. She left him. 2 weeks later he begged her to come back and they're now happily married. Men hit on me in front of him often. I'm afraid that was a sore spot for him. Yes, that's correct.
TaraMaiden Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 I'm not gutless, I just don't see the point confronting him cause he will make up a story or blame me and I don't want to fight over this. NC? No contact? Oh aye, yes.
Author PleasantonGirl Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 Deathandtaxes, Just wondering, noticed you're male, is he looking for sex on the side or to REPLACE me? I just need to know, no matter what.
TaraMaiden Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Deathandtaxes, Just wondering, noticed you're male, is he looking for sex on the side or to REPLACE me? I just need to know, no matter what. For the last frekin' time - it - doesn't - matter. Second-guessing is pointless. Asking him (as you've stated) - is pointless. asking us - is pointless. We don't know, he won't tell. leave it, leave him and just quit, ok??
Author PleasantonGirl Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 No need to be impatient or rude. I'm shocked and heart broken and feeling very raw right now. Maybe some of you are hardened gladiators but there is a whole lot more to my story. I hear what you're all saying, but there's no need to be crass. We are all in enough pain here as it is! This is called the LOVE shack, where we can feel safe talking about our relationships. 1
isisisweeping Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 It doesn't matter if he intends to replace you or not. Your dignity shouldn't allow him to continue as long as you're not replaced. You want a why? Because he's a messed up individual. That's a requirement to cheat. From the freak out and sudden breakup, the cheating isn't new either. Dump him. You are better off. Better go on a hot air balloon by yourself than with someone who disrespects you.
Treasa Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 So you're feeling insecure sometimes, you only see each other once a week, and he very suddenly broke up with you and was angry. Oh, and he's on a dating site. If you're in your late 40s, you're hopefully beyond this crap by now. Dump him and find a man closer to your age whose maturity matches yours. 2
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